Ask Amy: I Have Relationship OCD And I Don’t Know How to Make Sense of it

Zoya has obsessive compulsive worries about her relationship.

She’s not sure exactly what she’s anxious about and she thinks she needs to know so that she can properly treat it.

But the definition of anxiety–the hallmark of “relationship OCD” or anything like it–is that our thoughts and worries don’t make sense and can’t be “treated”. Listen in to hear more.

Send your questions to AskAmy@TheLittleSchoolofBigChange.com and meet me here each Monday at 1pm ET for my response!

The 2026 Book Club

We'll read Galen Sharps's What Am I? A Study in Non-Volitional Living. Join us for six weeks of simple, profound pointings to our real nature.

SAVE YOUR SEAT


Join The Community

Join The Community

In The Community, you get weekly group calls, access to our very active private forum, 3 monthly Resting in Restlessness calls, and access to a collection of best-selling digital courses.

JOIN US HERE


Become Your Own Habit-Free Success Story!

The Little School of Big Change is a program designed to help you overcome anxiety and unwanted habits without needing to rely on willpower or self-discipline.

Learn More


Get The Just A Thought Introduction and First Chapter for Free!

Just a Thought: A No-Willpower Approach to End Self-Doubt and Make Peace with your Mind is available in all formats. Download the Introduction and Chapter 1 now!

Get It Here