Ask Amy: I Want to Believe That Others Don’t Determine my Feelings. But it Sure Seems Like They do!

Robyn–like all of us–has a hard time seeing that her feelings aren’t dictated by people and events outside of her.

It sure looks like unpleasant circumstances or people create unpleasant feelings.

But that’s an illusory correlation. Listen in to hear how it really works because seeing the real causation changes everything.

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