Ask Amy: Why is my thinking so much more negative than my husband’s?

Rae wonders why her thinking is so much more negative than her husband’s.

I don’t know. Thought content is very habitual and is probably the culmination of a million factors.

But I would encourage Rae to ask a different question. Listen in to hear what I’d love to see her ask instead.

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