Ask Amy: Is it OK to Want Validation From Other Men Even Though I’m Heartbroken Over my Breakup?

Nancy recently broke up with her boyfriend.

Even though she’s really upset over the ending of that relationship, her mind is still wanting validation from other guys.

Is this normal? What does it mean about her or her relationship with her boyfriend?

Send your questions to askamy@thelittleschoolofbigchange.com and meet me at https://www.facebook.com/dramyjohnson each Monday for my live response.

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