Tag: patterns

Projection. And Parenting.

Projection is fascinating, isn’t it? When I looked up the definition of projection I saw a lot of stuff related to television screens. So I’ll clarify—as if it’s necessary in this blog—that I mean psychological projection.You know, where you attribute your feelings or thoughts to someone else. You assume they think and feel the way

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What to do With your Patterns

You’ve uncovered some of your patterns. Now what?Patterns, like fears, are kind of like zoo animals. They don’t respond well to taunting. And they didn’t do anything wrong, so there’s no reason to be mean to them, anyway.Please don’t use them to beat yourself up and don’t get mad at them or blame them for

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How you do Anything is how you do Everything

I’ve been drawn to this expression for a while, not really understanding it intellectually but totally getting it on some intuitive level. It felt right on, even though I didn’t understand what it meant.Does it do anything for you?It’s all about patterns. For example, how do you react when you’re confronted? Do you get instantly

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