Change happens by neglect. Neglect of me, the one with the big problem, and neglect of the problem itself.How do we neglect something that feels so solid and important? See it clearly.It’s like an impressionist painting. From a few feet back, the mind conceptualizes it as a pond with water lilies. But move closer and
In this episode of Changeable, I have a conversation with Emily about energy and overwhelm. Emily says she swings from periods of coasting (which feels lazy to her) and pushing, which feels harsh and exhausting. She also talks about the feeling of being constantly “on” in her work. We explore how much is truly effortless and how
My client recently said this. She wants to be a different person. You’ve had that thought many times, right? Being a person is hard. It’s inevitable that “different persons”, all imagined, of course, look better than the person you are.But what if you aren’t a person? Maybe the desire for different isn’t about being a different
In this episode I speak to some questions from a listener about how to best support her daughter through suicidal and self- harm thoughts and actions.The listener notices when her daughter’s mood seem to fluctuate in a way her daughter does not. I speak to how we can point to the always in flux nature
Episode 300 is all about working with thought and awareness to re-cognize your true nature. Awareness is always-present. It is who and what you are. It is overlooked due to identification with thought.Thought, attended to and identified with, is dead. It’s not always-present nor is it who or what you are.How to re-familiarize yourself with
I get a lot of questions about what it looks like to feel what’s arising. How do we welcome what’s here? How can we fully immerse in what is? These are great questions that aren’t easily addressed by more talking about it; so in this episode, I walk you through an experiential exploration. This was very intuitive
Richard Lang was a recent guest speaker in The Little School of Big Change community. This episode is a portion of our time with him. This conversation with Richard is an investigation into your true nature. From a few feet away, you appear to others as a person. You appear to them, so you’re told,
It can be heartbreaking to feel as if you “have it” – clear seeing, a buzzing energy, emotional freedom, a loss of identity –and then to feel as if you “lose it”. And, this is what you signed up for. It must be this way. This is awakening, not the always happy picture your mind
We’re always getting what we most need because what we “get” is our own projection. It’s a projection from and as an insecure identity. That’s what our triggers are – the areas where the self we take ourselves to be feels threatened and insecure.This is why it seems that we are victimized by the same
In this episode I have an amazing conversation with Dr. Kathleen Perry about the most important exploration: Who am I? Kathleen shares how being curious about identity is fundamental to everything we’re up to and everything we’re up against. Nothing shifts the way life looks and feels the way an exploration of identity can.Kathleen discusses
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